Showing posts with label tradition. Show all posts
Showing posts with label tradition. Show all posts

Friday, November 5, 2010

Ditching The White Dress

While perusing CNN during my read-the-news break at work, I came across an interesting article that caught my attention.  Yes, I know what you're going to say.  Natalie, anything with the word "bride" or "wedding" always catches your attention.  I won't deny it but I do think this one is particularly interesting.

Brides buck tradition and ditch the white dress


The article doesn't give us (or those of us who regularly browse wedding sites) any new information but reiterated what we've been seeing lately: less brides are wearing white on their wedding day.  In my mind, white and ivory are in the same category but the article does make a distinction.  The dress I ordered, as well as what a lot of brides are gravitating towards these days (according to the article), is ivory.  Big deal.  However, the featured bride is wearing a blue/green dress...

I like traditions.  I think that there is something romantic and comforting about them - especially during big life-cycle events like weddings.  This doesn't mean that I like all traditions - and I'm sure that's what these out-of-the-box brides are thinking.  Personally, I would never consider not wearing a white/ivory dress on my wedding day but I'm fascinated by the women who do.  I wonder if they'll regret it later.  This, being their one opportunity to wear a WHITE gown, rather than one that can be worn to prom or the Oscars.  

In my head, the ceremony and the reception offer two completely different vibes.  So when brides wear white to the ceremony and change for the reception, it shouldn't be that big of a deal.  

But the actual ceremony... the uniting of two people... the "forever" promises... the mention of our ancestors making the same commitment... the seriousness of the whole thing... you're not wearing white?

Who am I to judge?  We're not even having a wedding cake.

Disclaimer: this post is not meant to offend anyone wearing a non-whiteish dress on their wedding day.  I am merely intrigued and curious as to your thoughts.  Please comment below!