I have to admit that I've been in a weird state of mind lately. I think it's a wedding high and I sure hope it stays this way for a while. We're going on day 10 post-wedding and, as my
husband likes to tell his friends, we're still married!
I have several things that I want to blog about in coming posts - mostly wedding related - but for today I'm ready to just talk Day Of. It was magical, perfect, amazing, better than we could have ever planned. The day was sort of a blur but there were a few things that stood out more than the others:
While I was getting my makeup done, so sometime between noon and 1:30pm
(because I had absolutely no concept of time all day), Diane, the world's most amazing wedding coordinator/B&B owner/nerve calmer, came into the Girl's Room to announce that the ceremony was going to have to be moved to the backup location. It had been raining on and off all day, as is typical for this region in the summer, and the doppler showed no signs of letting up. I was disappointed but couldn't help but laugh when she mentioned that she had told the Groom first and his only concern was that he NOT be the one to pass the news on to me! I knew that it would still be beautiful, this is why we had picked the venue after all, so the getting-ready process resumed with the hope that we could take some pictures outside before the ceremony. I think that this was a blessing in disguise. The ceremony was perfect and the space on the outdoor covered deck fit our group a little better than the original hillside location. We were still outside and the views of the mountains behind the Chuppah were unreal. And yes, we were still able to take our pictures outside. Any doubt we had about the location of the ceremony was officially erased when, 5 minutes following the end of the ceremony, the weather turned to a complete downpour. I thought it was beautiful :)
Another moment that I'll never forget was standing behind two closed doors with FOB, after the Bridal Party and Groom had walked to their ceremony places, waiting to take our walk down the aisle. I was shaking. Like, seriously, shaking. I wasn't nervous but it was a feeling that I've experienced before. Crazy adrenalin, perhaps? My dad was whispering calming words and Diane threw out a few bits of advice although I don't think I ever comprehended what either of them were saying. The walk down the aisle... well, did I even walk down the aisle? I certainly don't remember it but somehow I made it to the Chuppah. I don't remember seeing or hearing anyone else there except for me, my Groom and the Rabbi. It was magical.
Someone came up to us during the reception and asked, "What were you two talking about during your first dance? You looked so involved in a conversation." Well, funny you should ask because that was another unforgettable moment. The dance started off with lots of
I love you's and
you look great but quickly turned into a conversation of
look, everyone is either in line for the bar or the dessert table! which then led into
didn't we tell him to shorten this song to 2 minutes? why is the music still playing? I'm going to give the DJ the cut-off signal behind your back. True story. I wish I could tell you that we were whispering sweet nothings to each other but we weren't. We were ready to get the real party started.
Coming up:
Lesson Learned: Bridesmaids
What Went Wrong (that you didn't notice)
If We Were To Do Things All Over Again...
PS. Dear Friends, If you have pictures, please, pretty please, send them to me!!